Updates
Why You Should Book Me at the Pink Dungeon
I had the pleasure of finally having my first play time at the Pink Dungeon in DTLA! I’ve known the owners, Veronica Vixen and Lady Lila Stern, for many years. They rented from Me at both Dungeon East and West before establishing their own space. I’m sure you’ve seen...
Rested, Recharged, and Up to No Good
I've really been enjoying a slower Los Angeles summer. Resting. Learning. Reading. Letting the dust settle after fifteen years of owning dungeons. One thing that's surprised me is how little I've missed. I thought I'd feel sad or lost after selling everything, but I...
Today’s supposed to be the luckiest day of the year
I don't know what it is about summer, but it definitely brings out a different side of Me. Maybe it's the tiny dresses. Maybe it's the leather sandals. Maybe it's knowing you're sweating while I'm perfectly unbothered. I've been settling back into life after closing...
Hot Domme Summer
I don't know what it is about summer, but it definitely brings out a different side of Me. Maybe it's the tiny dresses. Maybe it's the leather sandals. Maybe it's knowing you're sweating while I'm perfectly unbothered. I've been settling back into life after closing...
The Biggest Mistake I See in BDSM
Alesandra from Dom/Sub Living rounded up a handful of BDSM educators (including Me!) to answer one question: what do people get wrong about BDSM? Funny enough, we all came at it from different angles but ended up saying the same thing. You can listen to the podcast...
I Told Femdom Royalty Everything
I was recently interviewed by Femdom Royalty Magazine about my 20-year career as a professional Dominatrix, the evolution of my work, and the bittersweet decision to close Stella Obscura. We talk about where I've been, what I've learned, and what's next as I enter a...
The Dungeon is Gone. Your Mistress Isn’t.
We are entering a new era. Thor Anderson and Mr. Pfeiffer inspected the sign and ultimately approved it. They also approved their new cat bed, aka my bondage bed that I've owned for 15 years across three different dungeons. It somehow feels exactly right that it now...
Stella Obscura is Closed. No, I’m Not Retiring.
Once again, I had a lovely weekend enjoying various Pride activities. I spent a gorgeous afternoon with Mistress Aline at a gallery opening for Gwyneth Bulawsky – really fun, beautiful large-scale paintings: dreamy landscapes, glamorous portraits, and just a little...
Happy F*cking Pride!
Hey Kinkster, HAPPY FUCKING PRIDE! If you are gayyyyy, I can't wait to see and celebrate with you this month. If you are an ally, I can't wait for you to support QUEERS extra hard this month. Second, if you are in California, please vote. At this point, you need...
Everyone Wants to Say Yes Mistress
Hey Kinksters, I'M BACK! After 4 good sleeps, a mani pedi, a vitamin IV drip and vitamin D shot in the ass - I finally feel like my Mistress self again. Other good news is that I got a new lap top and everything is working properly again. Not having it was an...