Obligatory VDay Roundup

Here’s my roundup of what I think you should do with your loved one or many – some are based in Los Angeles, but some can be done anywhere!

1. Ask your/self/partner what you/they want to do and do it.

I know. This is an extremely wild idea. I was going to wait to tell you this one when you were a little bit older, but I think you are ready now. No surprises, we’ve just had far too many in the last couple of years. I have talked to countless lovebirds who truly want to do something wonderful for their partner and it’s something like a surprise visit from the dungeon or Me. Please do not do this. It can be something fancy or something casual, just ASK.

I even have a handy dandy sex negotiation worksheet if you like or a kink negotiation worksheet. Whether it’s to get the party started or maybe to recalibrate or refine what you got going on, this is a great jumping off point.

Bruises from giving blood are cool!

2. Donate blood

It’s red, it’s warm, it’s sticky and if you know what show from the 90s that inspired this suggestion, hmu for a prize! Find out where to donate here.

Dungeon East in DTLA is the best place for overnights.

3. Book a dungeon or get a gift certificate

Shameless plug for MY dungeon in DTLA, Dungeon East. Sure maybe you’ve been here for the amazing classes and parties, but have you ever treated yourself to some alone time in the space with a friend or kinky playmate? Or seriously just by yourself. We have a ton of toys and maybe you just need a place to scream. You could also book a sexy/kinky shoot. Use your self timer or ask for a photographer recommendation. Our insta is full of lovely people who have shot here recently.

All of my favorite things: bondage, Honey Birdette, Louboutins and your drool on the screen.

4. Book a dominatrix

I used to work at a commercial dungeon and people would call and ask who’s available. I wanted my name to be “The Only Mistress Available” but they wouldn’t let me call myself that which is just one of the many reasons to not like a place like that. Have. You. Seen. Me. Lately. I am hot AF, extremely knowledgeable of my craft and also quite funny. See me do all of these things in Try Guys Sex Trivia (1 Million views and climbing!) and then book me here for a solo session, a couples session or I can just help you get your life together ffs.

All of my favorite things: bondage, Honey Birdette, Louboutins and your drool on the screen.

5. Take a BDSM class or gift it to someone

While you can find all my live classes that are happening virtually or in person on Eventbrite, I highly recommend the line-up at 910 Weho as well. Go forth and learn. You can always access my classes on Gumroad.

6. Explore with some new toys

I have a lot of new in the box or gently used items in the Kinky Little Corner Store at Dungeon East OR online with my affiliates here. Really it’s a good practice to ALWAYS buy something thru someone’s affiliate links. Just put on socials, “I want to buy [this rad product] does anyone have an affiliate code for it?” This is a little way to help someone, yay!

WINTER CLASS & EVENT SCHEDULE

2/11 Bondage 101: Single & Double Column Ties with Jordan – Dungeon East – 1-3pm
2/15 BDSM for Beginners with Justine Cross (HYBRID)- 910 Weho – 7-9pm
2/16 Safety and Awareness with Master Jai – Dungeon East – 7-9pm
2/25 Exploring Your Dominant Persona with Justine Cross (HYBRID) – 910 WeHo – 1-3pm
2/26 Sunday Soundbath at the Dungeon with Jordan – Dungeon East – 6-7:30pm